1/13/2010

10 Steps to a Relaxing Thanksgiving

10 Steps to a Relaxing Thanksgiving

10 Steps to a Relaxing Thanksgiving
By Barbara Hemphill

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday! Family, friends, good food - and no presents to buy. To make it your best holiday ever, consider these organizing tips:

o Choose your preferred style: formal with everyone dressed up and using their best manners - or a more informal relaxed style. If you've invited more people than your dining table will seat, decide whether to add extra tables or a set up a buffet and use couches and occasional chairs for seating. Arrange for extra chairs if necessary.

o Keep in mind the ages of the people involved - and choose a time for the meal that will fit their needs - young children may get too tired if you wait to sit down at 1:00 pm. Consider seating for children based on ages. Teenagers might enjoy the day more seated together.

o Ask guests to identify their favorite dish - include as many of them as possible. (If someone wants a pecan pie, and you don't like to bake them, check out your local restaurant or bakery.) Don't assume you have to do everything - why not invite guests to bring a favorite dish? (Or ask them to bring a table centerpiece or bottle of wine.)

o Plan your menu well in advance, make a shopping list, and purchase non-perishables at the same time you do your regular shopping. If you're planning to use a fresh turkey, place your order early.

o Get out the table linens before Thanksgiving morning - make sure you have the sizes you need, and check to see if they need to be laundered, or ironed.

o Select table decorations. If you have children, involve them in the planning and execution of the celebration. (My children loved to make turkey cookies!) Consider disposable Thanksgiving napkins.

o To save clean-up time, or if the family china is insufficient to accommodate the guest list, attractive holiday disposable tableware is a viable option. Be sure you have enough serving dishes and utensils for the quantities you will be serving.

o If you're having a sit-down dinner, consider setting your table the day before to minimize last-minute stress. Make a checklist of things to be done on Thanksgiving day in order or priority.

o Determine your clean-up strategy prior to dinner. Do you want everyone to chip in and help - or would you prefer to spend the time with the family - and clean it up when they're gone?

o When the day is over, make notes about anything you wish you had done differently - file your notes away for next year, and give Thanksgiving for another special day.

� Barbara Hemphill is the author of Kiplinger's Taming the Paper Tiger at Work and Taming the Paper Tiger at Home and co-author of Love It or Lose It: Living Clutter-Free Forever. The mission of Hemphill Productivity Institute is to help individuals and organizations create and sustain a productive environment so they can accomplish their work and enjoy their lives. We do this by organizing space, information, and time. We can be reached at 800-427-0237 or at www.ProductiveEnvironment.com

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1/12/2010

Making Time to Write this Holiday Season

Making Time to Write this Holiday Season

Making Time to Write this Holiday Season
By Danielle Hollister

As the countdown to Christmas day continues, most everyone is naturally all wrapped up in preparing for the big day (and the eve of the big day and the day after the big day...).

Whether it's shopping, baking, or hosting holiday gatherings, you are probably engaged in time-consuming activities related to the season.
Although your dedication to these tasks is completely reasonable and most likely pre-planned, your ability to meet these demands and still have to write may not be as realistic.

In order to maintain your sanity through the holidays, you should not allow your writing time to totally disappear. You may find yourself feeling somewhat stressed out, as you try to tackle the gift buying and deal with the family get-togethers.

I honestly believe that if you make time to write during this hectic season, you may alleviate some of the inevitable anxiety associated with the holidays. Writing can be as relaxing to writers as watching television is to couch potatoes.

You should not overlook the value of a little me time (or break/rest time for you alone). Schedule some me time or free time into your busy day, and then actually TAKE IT!

During this break period (however small it may be), you may find that it will help you to write about your worries and/or aggravations. You could accomplish this goal by:

  1. Recording the events of your day into a diary of sorts before you go to sleep each night.
  2. Writing random thoughts or jotting down brief notes as they come to mind through out your day.
  3. Carrying a journal with you to family gatherings, shopping expeditions, holiday celebrations and related events and then use it to write whatever you feel like writing about at any given time.

(For example, you may observe something that inspires a story idea or you may want to record actual images, scenes or conversations that occur during these seasonal festivities.)

Making lists of things associated with the holidays that you either know a lot about or want to learn more about - which in turn could serve as possible article ideas for next year at this time.

Chronicle your feelings about your child as you watch him experience his first Christmas and then continue to do this each year until he no longer believes in Santa Claus (or until you no longer see the look in his eyes expressing the natural awe of the season that only children have).

Compile your account of these yearly events into a memoir for yourself and/or as a gift to share with your child when he gets older. You could also use your chronicle as a stepping stone for a possible book about Christmas, children, holidays etc...

Whatever you write about or however you choose to use your writing time, your primary goal will be achieved, if you just TAKE TIME to write during this busy season!

Best of luck to you and Happy Holidays to you and your families.

Resource Box - � Danielle Hollister (2004) is the Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine - A free newsletter for quote lovers featuring more than 10,000 quotations in dozens of categories like - love, friendship, children, inspiration, success, wisdom, family, life, and many more. Read it online at - http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art8364.asp

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1/11/2010

The Holiday Shopping Experience - Rewarding or Traumatic?

The Holiday Shopping Experience - Rewarding or Traumatic?

The Holiday Shopping Experience - Rewarding or Traumatic?
By Lee-Anne Robert

Picture this scenario! It's December 24th, the day of Christmas Eve. On this day you should be relaxing, enjoying time with family and thinking of all the precious memories you have created throughout the year.

No, wait! It's the last day of shopping before Christmas and you haven't even started to do your gift shopping.

You get into your car and fight traffic all the way to the local mall, only to spend an hour trying to find a parking spot. That is if you find one at all. You enter the mall in search of the perfect gifts and there is a stampede of people. Looks like everyone else is doing last minute shopping too!

You dodge the nudging elbows and stomping feet of the crowds. You're starting to feel claustrophobic, your stress level is starting to increase and you haven't even begun shopping yet!

Sound familiar? To top it all off, you browse through the stores only to find that meager offerings remain. The shelves are practically empty. What happens then? You spend too much money on something that your gift recipient neither needs or wants. Their gift wasn't chosen for them...it was chosen out of desperation.

Once again, you remind yourself that you will prepare far in advance for Christmas next year. The next Holiday Season arrives and you repeat the same traumatic shopping experience.

How many of us have waited until the very last moment to buy a gift for a loved one, friend or business associate? There is only three months left until Christmas and those days will go quickly.

Christmas is one of the most stressful events of the year. The expense of buying gifts and the pressure of last minute shopping can all take the joy out of the most joyful time of year.

Here are some tips to take the stress out of Holiday shopping this year:

1) Make a list of the people you will be buying a gift for before you go shopping. If you have a large family or friends to buy gifts for, it can get expensive. In our family, we have made the decision to buy only for the children. Another way to reduce costs is to have everyone draw a name out of a hat and buy a present only for that person.

2) Think of gift ideas for the people on your list and write them down. What are their hobbies and interests? What are their needs and wants? If you cannot come up with anything, ask the person directly for ideas. This will save you time wandering aimlessly in the mall in search of a gift and you will give a gift that your gift recipient really wants and will appreciate.

3) Buy a few extra gifts, for instance chocolates, so that you will be prepared just in case you forgot somebody or an unexpected guest arrives bearing gifts.

4) If possible, start your Holiday shopping a month or two before Christmas. It is never to early to prepare!

5) Don't forget about online shopping! Buy your gifts over the internet. You can find most gifts online, shop at your own convenience and you won't have to step foot in a mall.

If you follow these tips, you are on your way to a rewarding shopping experience and a less stressful Holiday Season.

We all must remember that Christmas is a joyful time of year. It's not about the gift you give or receive but it is about cherishing the special people in your life and spending time with them. Create new traditions and memories that will be with you for a lifetime.

Copyright 2004 Written by Lee-Anne Robert, owner of Cuddles �n Gifts at http://www.cuddlesngifts.net featuring holiday gift baskets and gifts for any occasion. Check out the new Holiday and Christmas Gift Basket selection. With gifts this beautiful and classy, you will find a gift for anyone on your list!

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1/10/2010

The Christmas Victory

The Christmas Victory

The Christmas Victory
By James M. Becher

A logical and practical interpretation of Is.7:14 in the light of context and language.

As you celebrate Christmas, sending out cards, putting up the tree with bright lights and decorations and getting caught up in the hustle and bustle of gift-buying, do you, do you ever wonder about the origin and meaning of these customs? (For some answers, see: The Meaning of Christmas below) Then do you ever stop to ask yourself what is the real meaning of Christmas? If you do, what is your answer? Simply that a babe was born in a manger 2000 years ago?

But then, do ask how does it apply to me? I'm sure some of you would say that of course the babe was our Savior, who would later die for our sins. True, but even this doesn't go quite far enough. In fact, it makes Christmas seem somewhat subordinate to Good Friday, which, according to some, should be the major holiday we celebrate and not Christmas. I believe however that if we would realize the full intent of His coming as given by God in the Holy Scriptures, we would see that we have good reason for making Christmas the major holiday it is and for celebrating to the hilt.

What, you ask, is the full intent of His coming? It is not simply that without his birth there would not have been His death, but rather that His birth was, in itself, a sign and guarantee both of this death and of the salvation it would bring in all it's fullness. This fullness includes not only a future eternity, but also a present victory and freedom from fear in our everyday lives. In Matthew 1:20-21, Joseph is told by the angel not to be afraid to take Mary for his wife because "that which has been conceived in her is of the Holy Ghost, and she shall bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for it is he who will save his people from their sins." The very name "Jesus" means "Savior," or more literally, "Deliverer." It is the transliteration of the Old Testament name, "Joshua." Just as Joshua led his people into victory in the land of Canaan, so Jesus leads us to victory in the land of our Spiritual heritage.

Then in verse 21, Matthew explains "Now All this took place that what is spoken by the LORD through the prophet might be fulfilled, saying, "BEHOLD, THE VIRGIN SHALL BE WITH CHILD AND SHALL BEAR A SON, AND THEY SHALL CALL HIS NAME IMMANUEL, WHICH TRANSLATED MEANS 'GOD WITH US.' Before we look at the quote, we must notice the word "fulfilled." In the original Greek, its literal meaning is "filled up" or "completed" or "completely filled." Also let me mention at this point, to avoid misunderstanding later, that the word for "virgin" in Matthew allows for NO other translation. Verse 23 is a direct quote from the Septuagint (the Greek translation of the Hebrew scriptures) of Is.7:14, which uses the Greek word specifically indicating one who is a virgin.

Please keep the meaning of these three Greek words in mind as we continue. "Jesus" = Deliverer," "fulfilled" = "completely filled up," and "virgin" = "virgin." Yes, there is no question that in Matthew the word "virgin" can only mean "virgin." When we come to original Hebrew Is.7:14, however, the case is different. The Hebrew language, being much broader in its word usage than Greek, allows for several related meanings to be attached to one word within a general context or circle of meaning. For example, the word "shalom" not only means "peace," but also "welfare," "blessing," "hello," and "goodbye," among other things. The same sort of thing is true of the Hebrew word "alma," which was translated as "virgin" by the King James translators in Is.7:14 The word has a broad meaning of "a young woman of marriageable age, one of whose characteristics may or may not be that she is a virgin." (See I Chr.15:20, Ps.68:25, Prov.30:19, Song 1:3 & 6::8) Thus, the translators of the RSV translated it as "young woman." They were roundly criticized, although this is a perfectly allowable translation, and one that fits more readily into the context as we shall see.

One of the main principles of interpretation is to check the context. In this case the immediate context would be the 7th and 8th chapters. Forget for a moment the prophetic nature of verse 14 and try to picture yourself back in the time of Ahaz and Isaiah. In the beginning of Chapter 7, we see that we are involved with a situation of actual physical warfare. Ahaz, king of Judah is facing two enemies, Rezin, king of Syria and Pekah, king of Israel, and he's scared to death. Thus, the LORD sent Isaiah to tell Ahaz not to fear, because these two kings would be defeated. Sensing Ahaz's doubt, the LORD asked Ahaz to as Him for a sign, but Ahaz, in a false piety, refused. So the LORD said that He would give Ahaz a sign. Thus, we come to verse 14. The fact that the message is addressed to the "house of David" does not negate its being intended for Ahaz, as he was the ruler, and thus the representative of the nation. If we translate "alma" as "young woman" and continue reading through verse 16, we see clearly what the sign to Ahaz was. The LORD is saying that a child will be born, and before the child is of age, the land whose two kings Ahaz dreads will be forsaken. If we continue on into Chapter 8, we see that a child is indeed born. Isaiah had a son, whose name means "hast-ye-haste-ye-to-the-spoil," and a similar statement is made in verse 4 to that of 7:16, tying Isaiah's son in with the prophecy of physical victory made to Ahaz. The child is even called "Emmanuel" in verse 8. Now you have a clear picture of what verse 14 meant to Ahaz. "But," you ask, "How does all of this relate to Matthew's quotation of verse 14, and the use by Matthew of a word which could only mean 'virgin'?" I believe the answer lies in typological interpretation. Do you remember the other word used in Matthew, which is translated "fulfilled"? Remember we said that it literally means "completely filled up." The prophecy was only partially fulfilled in Ahaz's time. The complete fulfillment would come later on. Thus, Isaiah's son, whose very name has the ring of victory in it, was BOTH A SIGN TO AHAZ AND A TYPE OF THE ONE TO COME, WHO WOULD BE TO US A SIGN OF SPIRITUAL VICTORY. In 8:18, Isaiah says that he and his children are for signs and wonders in Israel, and the word used here for "sign" is also translated as "type." (A type is a real person place thing or event in the Old Testament, which also represents, by way of looking forward to, a corresponding Spiritual reality, [called the "antitype"] in the New Testament.)

This typological interpretation allows for the full meaning of "alma" to come into play. Ahaz heard it as "young woman" and saw it fulfilled as such in his time with the birth of Isaiah's son. But, looking back, we can see that this was not all that God intended. God had more in mind than the birth of Isaiah's son. He was also looking down the corridors of time to when He would send His son, through a virgin. Thus the prophecy was completely filled up by the birth of the antitype, Jesus, as recorded in Matthew. Hopefully, we can now see more of the reason that Jesus came and why we can celebrate his birth to the full. Ahaz feared two enemies. We also have two enemies, which we need now no longer fear. I mentioned Is.8:18. This verse is quoted in the New Testament in Hebrews.2:13 in reference to the incarnation of Christ, and in verse 14 & 15, we see that he came to set us free from the fear of death. Paul also speaks of this in Icor.15:55-57. (By the way, that is the reason for the green of the evergreen tree. It represents eternal life. For more on the meaning of Christmas traditions, check out The Meaning of Christmas. ) In verses 17-18, we find the second enemy that Jesus came to defeat is the enemy of sin, also mentioned by Paul in Romans 6, where he says in verse 14 that it shall not have dominion over us. He combines these two enemies in Romans 8:2, saying that Christ has set us free, or "delivered" us from them. Thus, as He tried to tell Ahaz, we need no longer fear them.

Of course, Rezin and Pekah may also represent your own personal foe or foes. Whatever your Rezin & Pekah are (the multiple of things the Devil may use to get you down), do not fear, but know that Jesus came to deliver you.

This is the real meaning of Christmas-that Jesus came to be our sign of victory-to show us that we need no longer fear the multiple forces that may be arrayed against us in the Spiritual realm. It is evident as well in Chapter 9 of Isaiah, where the specific promise of the birth of Christ-the son to be given in verse 6-is couched in the language of warfare and victory (vs.4 & 5). It is further confirmed by the prophecy of the angel to Mary in Luke 1:33, and in the Magnificant of Mary and the Benidictus of Zacharias (Luke 1:46-55 & a68-79), especially vs.69, 71, &74-75. These especially present the idea that Jesus delivers us for fear-free service to God. Read these wonderful portions of scripture and rejoice in the fact that victory can be yours through faith in Jesus, whose birth we celebrate at this time of year. May the bright lights beautiful decorations, and fancily wrapped gifts we see this season serve to remind us of the glorious victory which can be ours through the one whose birthday we are celebrating.

Article written by James M. Becher, Seminary graduate, Bible teacher, author of "OF SUCH IS THE KINGDOM, A Novel of Biblical Times" and "IMPOSSIBLE JOURNEY, A Tale of Times & Truth" (Please see my personal URL for details on these two novels) and publisher of the bi-weekly Ezine, "Inspirational Success Tips" from which this article was taken. For sample articles, poems and quotes and Free subscribe instructions go to http://inspirationalsuccesstips.blogspot.com

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1/09/2010

Top 25 Thanksgiving Quotations

Top 25 Thanksgiving Quotations

Top 25 Thanksgiving Quotations
By Danielle Hollister

  1. "It is therefore recommended ... to set apart Thursday the eighteenth day of December next, for solemn thanksgiving and praise, that with one heart and one voice the good people may express the grateful feelings of their hearts and consecrate themselves to the service of their divine benefactor ..." -- Samuel Adams, father of the American Revolution on November 1, 1777 (adopted by the 13 states as the first official Thanksgiving Proclamation)
  2. "Gratitude is the sign of noble souls." -- Aesop's Fables
  3. "Thanksgiving is possible only for those who take time to remember; no one can give thanks who has a short memory." -- Anonymous
  4. "One act of thanksgiving made when things go wrong is worth a thousand when things go well." -- Anonymous
  5. "Thanksgiving is a circle of memories." -- Anonymous
  6. "Thanksgiving is a time for remembering and appreciating the special people in our lives. Our home is warmed by the love of family and friends." -- Anonymous
  7. "What we're really talking about is a wonderful day set aside on the fourth Thursday of November when no one diets. I mean, why else would they call it Thanksgiving?" -- Erma Bombeck
  8. "My cooking is so bad my kids thought Thanksgiving was to commemorate Pearl Harbor." -- Phyllis Diller
  9. "I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and new." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson
  10. "Who does not thank for little will not thank for much." -- Estonian proverb
  11. "Your friend is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving." -- Kahlil Gibran
  12. "There is one day that is ours. Thanksgiving Day . . . is the one day that is purely American." -- O. Henry
  13. "As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." -- John Fitzgerald Kennedy
  14. "An optimist is a person who starts a new diet on Thanksgiving Day." -- Irv Kupcinet
  15. "Thanksgiving Day comes, by statute, once a year; to the honest man it comes as frequently as the heart of gratitude will allow." -- Edward Sandford Martin
  16. "Thanksgiving comes to us out of the prehistoric dimness, universal to all ages and all faiths. At whatever straws we must grasp, there is always a time for gratitude and new beginnings." -- J. Robert Moskin
  17. "Thanksgiving Day is a jewel, to set in the hearts of honest men; but be careful that you do not take the day, and leave out the gratitude." -- E.P. Powell
  18. " Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving." -- WT Purkiser
  19. "Let us remember that, as much has been given us, much will be expected from us, and that true homage comes from the heart as well as from the lips, and shows itself in deeds." -- Theodore Roosevelt
  20. "Great as the preparations were for the dinner, everything was so contrived that not a soul in the house should be kept from the morning service of Thanksgiving in the church." -- Harriet Elizabeth Beecher Stowe
  21. "How wonderful it would be if we could help our children and grandchildren to learn thanksgiving at an early age. Thanksgiving opens the doors. It changes a child's personality. A child is resentful, negative--or thankful. Thankful children want to give, they radiate happiness, they draw people." -- Sir John Templeton
  22. "Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling. Thanksgiving is the following of that impulse." -- Henry Van Dyke
  23. "It is the duty of all Nations to acknowledge the providence of Almighty God, to obey his will, to be grateful for his benefits, and humbly to implore his protection and favor." -- George Washington in his first Presidential Proclamation
  24. "The Pilgrims made seven times more graves than huts. No Americans have been more impoverished than these who, nevertheless, set aside a day of thanksgiving." -- H. U. Westermayer
  25. "And let these altars, wreathed with flowers And piled with fruits, awake again Thanksgivings for the golden hours, The early and the latter rain!" -- John Greenleaf Whittier

Resource Box - � Danielle Hollister (2004) is the Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine - A free newsletter for quote lovers featuring more than 10,000 quotations in dozens of categories like - love, friendship, children, inspiration, success, wisdom, family, life, and many more. Read it online at - http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art8364.asp

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